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Originally Posted by Duke
The main concern we have as parents is we see our children as babies no matter how old they are and therefor never truly realize whats going on in their lives. It's not for lack of trying.
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Aw so true. But it is sometimes better that way imo. But then I set my own limits that I won't pass, and they are close to my parents, so my values and ideas are based off them. And I have no reason to rebel. Aw! possibly a helpful hint.
DON'T GIVE THEM REASON TO REBEL!! Be lenient, but not a pushover, allow to pass the normal limits/curfews every so often to allow us to feel like we aren't tied down, then we feel no reason to rebel, already happy.
Of course that is rare, but always give a try!