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Merika · 01-04-2005, 08:19 PM

I imagine I would feel the same way if I were in your position SH. Somehow though.....all will work out and even if your life heads along a path a little different than you thought it would....doesn't mean it won't end up being the most fabulous plan of all.

I think lots of people have babies at a time when they think surely it will mess up and disrupt their whole life.....and kids surely can do their share of changing whatever one has going on.....but after you look into their little face....you won't be able to remember life without her/him.

I remember when Star was adamant about not wanting to raise a baby. NOW....look at her. You couldn't pull her away from that baby with 16 horses.....nor would she trade Erika for the world.

I think all the hesitancy will pass in time. Till that time comes though....it's tough rerouting your whole life around an unexpected and unplanned baby.

01-04-2005, 08:19 PM	#4 (permalink)
Merika Retired Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida, USA Posts: 1,000	I imagine I would feel the same way if I were in your position SH. Somehow though.....all will work out and even if your life heads along a path a little different than you thought it would....doesn't mean it won't end up being the most fabulous plan of all. I think lots of people have babies at a time when they think surely it will mess up and disrupt their whole life.....and kids surely can do their share of changing whatever one has going on.....but after you look into their little face....you won't be able to remember life without her/him. I remember when Star was adamant about not wanting to raise a baby. NOW....look at her. You couldn't pull her away from that baby with 16 horses.....nor would she trade Erika for the world. I think all the hesitancy will pass in time. Till that time comes though....it's tough rerouting your whole life around an unexpected and unplanned baby.