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Stone · 01-04-2005, 07:51 PM

My parents 25 th wedding anniversery is comming up and I decied to send them on a cruise instead of throwing a party. It is already booked for March and my mother just called and said cancell the cruise becaue they are getting divorced!! ( no there not, she always says that) She has ALWAYS said that and not to blame anything on her but I always threaten my men that I am leaving maby this is a learned behavior.. but I am sick of it.

Do you think I should cancell the cruise? Or maby a vacation alone is what they might need.

Personally I'll be VERY VERY upset if she leaves my father ( he's no prize) but he is disabled he can't work and he lost his eyesight... If she leaves him after 25 years it's just wrong... But at the same time she is VERY unhappy... I would rather just stay out of it, but she is always whining about how unhappy she is to me and I don't want to hear it.... Is that unsensitive?

01-04-2005, 07:51 PM	#1 (permalink)
Stone Veteran Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,868	Parents are driving me nuts My parents 25 th wedding anniversery is comming up and I decied to send them on a cruise instead of throwing a party. It is already booked for March and my mother just called and said cancell the cruise becaue they are getting divorced!! ( no there not, she always says that) She has ALWAYS said that and not to blame anything on her but I always threaten my men that I am leaving maby this is a learned behavior.. but I am sick of it. Do you think I should cancell the cruise? Or maby a vacation alone is what they might need. Personally I'll be VERY VERY upset if she leaves my father ( he's no prize) but he is disabled he can't work and he lost his eyesight... If she leaves him after 25 years it's just wrong... But at the same time she is VERY unhappy... I would rather just stay out of it, but she is always whining about how unhappy she is to me and I don't want to hear it.... Is that unsensitive?