I don't have a problem confronting hubby or the kids. I have a problem confronting friends and other members of the family. I usually let it sit and see if things get any better ( I can take a lot of crap before I blow up!). If it doesn't and the person continues whatever, I will end up confronting. I'm in a situation now where I need to confront an old friend of mine (that I decided to get back in touch with) and I'm having a problem with it. I'd rather just not talk to her ever again instead but I know that's not the right thing to do. She needs to hear what I have to say and if we stop talking after that, then so be it. It isn't someone I can live without and I'll miss terribly so it's no sweat off my back. But, I still should confront her because what she did is unexceptable behaviour and she needs to know that and hear from me. Now I'm all pissed again! Geesh!! :roll:
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